Don’t Fucking Give Up

by The Asian Casanova on June 23, 2011

 

I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.

-Michael Jordan

Your will to overcome challenges will determine how good you get in dating and with all other things in life. I was a virgin dork, with no social skills, no good looks, no money, and no sense of fashion. But what I did have was  a burning unyielding desire to become great with women. I had to learn it all from scratch. And if you were like me, who started with nothing, then you will have a very challenging road ahead of you. This is a fact, get used to it.

There will be times that girls will reject you. You will say things that will get you funny looks at times, and you will do things that will seem awkward at times. Everything you do from this point on will be awkward to you. You are exiting your comfort zone, it can be scary, and it will definitely be challenging.

The reward and journey is worth it.

You will meet and date beautiful women. You  will experience amazing things that you’ve never thought possible. It is all available to you, but you have to work for it. You have to put in the effort and have the perseverance to do and go through what it takes to get what you want, in all things in  life.

When a girl rejects you, what will you do? Are you going to cry like a baby, get all depressed, and act defeated?

Or

Are you going to pick your ass up and realize that you messed up, learn from it, and then try again. And. Again. And. Again.

What I am talking about is determination, perseverance, iron will… your ability to push through difficulty and try as along and as hard as it takes to achieve your goals. Being able to date beautiful women is not going to be easy, not where we came from. It is easy for guys who have good looks and who naturally learned to develop a great personality growing up through childhood and through their parents. But I didn’t have that. We didn’t have that. But that doesn’t mean it’s not possible. It just means we have to work harder at it.

Oh wait, what do we have here? An attractive trait that women like!

That’s right, if you guessed it. A major attractive trait in men, is their ability to persevere, to handle hard times and difficulty. Women love a man who isn’t a coward, who doesn’t back down when times get tough. You need to be that man. The one trait that will propel you towards success with women is the same trait that will attract them towards you. You need to persevere. Strive for success. Have the guts to make it through to the finish line. Don’t fucking give up.

Anything worth having is life is not going to be easy to get.

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